tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2098377761995034171.post5468456514860702592..comments2023-11-03T09:15:22.062+00:00Comments on Not Even a Bag of Sugar: Look Before You Leap - Listen Before You JudgeKykareehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00316100979546486127noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2098377761995034171.post-68318151251055652162011-09-03T21:11:44.348+01:002011-09-03T21:11:44.348+01:00Me too, I always give that little wink and a whisp...Me too, I always give that little wink and a whisper. But with this post you have helped me realise I'm not alone in being annoyed/worried about peoples comments whatever that comment maybe. I wish we all helped each other out more because lord knows we all need it from time to time instead of people making ignorant unhelpful comments.justinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00858910887417721099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2098377761995034171.post-2672264576705063652011-09-03T20:59:08.674+01:002011-09-03T20:59:08.674+01:00People's attitudes to tantrums are incredible!...People's attitudes to tantrums are incredible! I always give a smile of consolation and whisper "that was me last week". I'm sorry but I cannot accept there is a single child who has gotten through toddlerhood without a tantrum. You are right, we should all be there to help and encourage one anotherKylie Hodgeshttp://notevena.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2098377761995034171.post-68223145049393853502011-09-03T20:56:37.552+01:002011-09-03T20:56:37.552+01:00The comments I can ignore, the questions I find ha...The comments I can ignore, the questions I find hard. I really should just learn to say "is this any of your business?" Or walk away, but I am too nice.Kylie Hodgeshttp://notevena.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2098377761995034171.post-56223631382366442032011-09-03T15:40:18.360+01:002011-09-03T15:40:18.360+01:00People are stupid, plain and simple. They say stup...People are stupid, plain and simple. They say stupid and mean things are are ignorant. I blogged awhile back about "What Not to Say" - it's still my most popular post. I found that after I blogged that, at least my friends and family stopped saying hurtful things around me. They were just clueless before about how their words were sounding. With strangers, I'm *trying* to learn to not let it bother me. I also think that if someone is being rude, be blunt with them, tell them how it is, then walk away. Sometimes people need to hear how far you've come.Jessi Bennionnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2098377761995034171.post-82248485353597764192011-09-03T10:50:50.946+01:002011-09-03T10:50:50.946+01:00my worst moment ever (and i still cry now and marc...my worst moment ever (and i still cry now and marc is 10) myself and my mum where in 'mothercare' and marc was in his buggy and still tiny at 7mths old (he was born at 25 weeks and weighed 2lbs ,he was just 5lb when he came home) and this snotty sales assitant jobsworth marched over to us as we looked at clothes to infrom me loudly all over the shop 'do you know babys in those prams should be over 3mths?' ...go on love i dnt think they heard you in china..i crumpled (i had postnatal depression anyway) my mum pushed the little dude out of the shop ...everyday some idiot would feel the need to comment ooooh look at your tiny baby ..yeah thanks i so totally hadn't noticed i used to wonder is it some 'mum code' i didnt know about ? when you become a mum you get the right to automatically pass judement on the whole worlds bbys? i mean i saw some pure ugly little horrors but id never say oooooh was the d.n.a having an off day love? you keep your chin up and remeber come 10 years you'l have the kewlest kid in the class and prob the tallest (i have) and when ppl ask you randomly in the street blind them with words they clearly wnt understand , being the igrorant twerps that they are !! much love gaynor .liverpool.Gaynorf34noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2098377761995034171.post-77055713881162292262011-09-03T09:27:34.427+01:002011-09-03T09:27:34.427+01:00it's hard to get over this but you have to ign...it's hard to get over this but you have to ignore people. I am forever being picked on for being a bad mother because I have a life outside of my son. You are a great mam. Usually when people are horrible to me I laugh in their faces because I'm a fab mam and I don't care what they think. I say, "look at my son. he is happy, loving, content and love me back" no one should judge you!! xJojosocalledlifehttp://jojokirtley.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2098377761995034171.post-35515633730104960342011-09-03T09:25:36.930+01:002011-09-03T09:25:36.930+01:00I've not commented before but I felt compelled...I've not commented before but I felt compelled too. One of the hardest parts I've found since becoming a parent is judgement from others. Wheather it be outsiders or people I know and it annoys me. I also find myself defending Layla and my parenting especially when she's having a tantrum, I should ignore comments but I find myself going "oh she's tired" etc then trying to stop the tantrum when I should just ignore it. It's part of growing up and learning but their little darling never does it, they will at some point. I don't think people know they are doing it but that is no excuse. Us parents should all help each other out, its the hardest but most rewarding job you'll ever do. X xjustinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00858910887417721099noreply@blogger.com